The Energy Drink Can I Crushed Before My Shift Even Started RedeemedExistence daily devotional, November 3, 2026 I crushed the can in the parking lot before I even clocked in, and I remember standing there a second too long, staring at the dented aluminum in my hand and feeling nothing like the jolt the can had promised. I had already had two cups of coffee at home, a third in the truck, and this can on top of it, and none of it had touched the tiredness underneath. That kind of tired does not come from one bad night. It comes from stacking twelve-hour shifts on top of a sick wife's appointments, on top of a lawn that needs mowing, on top of a sponsee who calls at eleven and a grandson's game at six, until there is no bottom layer left that is actually rest. I used to think exhaustion was a problem of scheduling. Standing in that parking lot, I finally admitted it had become a problem of my soul. I spent the first part of my life running myself into the ground on purpos...

The Prayer List Index Card I've Carried in My Bible for Six Years There is a three by five index card tucked into the book of Psalms in my Bible, soft at the corners now, with one name written on it in pen that has faded to almost nothing. I wrote that name six years ago, kneeling beside my bed the night I finally got honest with God about a nephew I love who was, and still is, running from every good thing anyone has ever offered him. I have prayed over that card more mornings than I have missed, and watched the ink fade while the situation itself has barely moved an inch. Somewhere around year four, I stopped expecting an answer and started just going through the motions, the way a man keeps paying on a debt he has quietly decided will never be forgiven. I spent the first half of my life running from God entirely, certain I knew better, and I did not come back to Him through some tidy, confident faith. I came back broken and desperate, and for years the desperation itself f...

The Freight Train That Stopped Dead Across Melrose Avenue While I Was Already Running Late RedeemedExistence daily devotional, November 2, 2026 I was eleven minutes behind schedule when the crossing arms came down anyway, bell clanging like it had chosen this exact morning to ruin mine. Then the train did the one thing a freight train can do that a car in traffic cannot. It stopped. Dead still, halfway through the crossing, boxcars stretching both directions with no end in sight. I had a dentist appointment already rescheduled once, and I sat there watching the clock add minutes I did not have, drumming the wheel hard enough that my knuckles ached before I noticed I was doing it. I am nineteen years sober, and there was a season when a stopped train would not have bothered me, mostly because I was rarely sober enough to be anywhere on time in the first place. Getting my life back meant getting serious about showing up, and I built a good chunk of my recovery around keeping my w...

The Thank-You Card I Rewrote Five Times Before I Could Mail It A woman from my Bible study brought a casserole to my house the week I was laid up after surgery, and all I had to do in return was write her a thank-you card. Four sentences. I sat at my kitchen table with the blank card in front of me for the better part of an hour, writing a line, reading it back, deciding it sounded flat, crossing it out, starting again. By the fifth draft I was no longer thinking about her kindness at all. I was thinking about whether she would decide, from my word choice, that I was not as grateful as I should be, not as thoughtful as the other women in that study, not quite enough. I finally mailed a card I still was not satisfied with, because the alternative was sitting at that table all night chasing four sentences that would never actually arrive. I spent many years of my life believing that love, whether from people or from God, had to be earned through flawless performance, and I did not ...

The Executor Letter My Brother Sent Through His Lawyer Instead of Calling Me The envelope had a law firm's return address on it, not my brother's handwriting, and I knew before I opened it that whatever was inside was going to cost me more than the stamp. Our mother died in March, and Dale and I had agreed at her graveside to handle the estate ourselves, two brothers working it out at her kitchen table over coffee instead of across a conference room. Instead I was holding a formal letter from his attorney, three pages of numbered paragraphs reminding me, in language cold enough to read twice, that failure to comply by a stated date could result in further action. I stood in my own driveway and felt something come up in me that twenty-six years of sobriety had not fully burned out, a heat behind my eyes that wanted to call him and say things I would not be able to take back. I did not call him that afternoon, mostly because I did not trust my own mouth yet. I have learned ...

I was the one who raised my hand when the deacon asked if anybody could stay behind and put the elements away, and I did it without thinking twice, the way you offer to carry a box before you remember how heavy it actually is. Everybody else filed out toward the fellowship hall for coffee, and I found myself alone in the little supply room off the sanctuary with a half case of communion wine in my hands and a closet door that locks from the outside. I stood there longer than it takes to put six bottles on a shelf. Nobody would have known. Nobody would have smelled it on me by Tuesday. I have handled far more dangerous things than that in twenty-two years of staying sober, and still that small quiet room did something to me that an open liquor aisle has not managed to do in a long time. I used to think temptation would always announce itself as something obviously wrong, a bar sign, an old phone number, a bad crowd. What caught me off guard in that closet is how ordinary and even sa...